
In June, I had the opportunity to sit down with author, advocate and Dreamcatchers for Abused Children president Donna Kshir. Many of my readers don’t know this, but I knew Donna long before the books, the public speaking engagements and her work as a advocate.
Donna has always been a good person with a big heart. She would go above and beyond to help anyone. She has never feared away from hard work or a challenge.
The last time Donna and I sat down, I was impressed by her will and determination to make a difference.
Two weeks ago, Donna emailed me stating she was invited to attend the Paso Robles Film Festival with her Dreamcatchers co-workers; Sandra Dawn Potter, Laurie Ann Smith and Elizabeth Brawley. I couldn’t be more happier and prouder of my friend, but I would be lying if I didn’t admit it made me more curious to see what makes her tick, why she is so dedicated and what her future plans are to end this epidemic.
Saturday morning, I arrived in Pennsylvania at Donna’s summer-home. She greeted me at the door, I immediately noticed her short blonde hair and youthfulness. She was casually dressed in blue jeans and a white tank top. We chatted for a bit before I hinted I was anxious to jump right into the interview.
The last time we spoke you stated you were stepping back from writing to focus on Dreamcatchers for Abused Children.
Kshir: Correct.
What have you been doing since we last spoke?
Kshir: F or the last three months I have been serving as a grant writer. We have so many plans and goals but without the proper funding we can’t put anything into action, and the sad part is, the only ones that suffer is the children. Seeking these grants are my first priority, right now, because I believe ALL children deserve the right to live in a safe environment, not fearing the people who are suppose to love and protect them.
Why do you believe violence is an issue?
Kshir : Violence is a big issue. It’s everywhere…
What bothers you the most about child abuse?
Kshir: The fact society is in denial.
Are men more physically abusive than women?
Kshir: A majority of abuse is reported by women, but I believe it is because most abused men feel weak, ashamed and embarrassed so they hid in silence.
I understand your photograph and quote was used for a National Male Abuse Awareness Campaign?
Kshir: Yes, I was honored they chose me. I wanted men who have suffered from domestic violence to know that there is nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed of.
Has anyone reached out to you?
A majority of the people who have reach out to me are teenagers. Most are just looking for someone to talk to, but feel embarrassed to ask a friend or family member so they reach out to me.
Are you ever pressed for time?
Kshir: Time is always an issue, but I am more than happy to make time for someone who needs help or has questions. I feel blessed to have the opportunity to help. I only wish I could do more.
Have you reached out to anyone to help in your quest?
Kshir: Yes. I have reached to people that I believe could help make a difference. I believe the younger people are educated the better their chances of living an abuse-free life.
What’s your goal?
Kshir: I want people to stop turning a blind eye and pretending child abuse doesn’t exist. I want them to take the time and educate themselves and their children. There are a lot of sick people out there that feel they are their kids and they can do with them as they please. Even if that includes physical and sexual abuse, molestation, rape or murder. Think about it for just a second, if people didn’t think it was their right to hurt, abuse, molest, rape or kill their children there would be no such thing as child abuse.
What’s your next move?
Kshir: My girls (Sandra, Laurie Ann and Elizabeth) and I are going to California in November to attend The Paso Robles Film Festival. It is a great opportunity. I feel blessed to be a part of it.
SOURCE:
http://newsblaze.com/story/20100831110921zzzz.nb/topstory.html