Comments for http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com Mon, 21 May 2012 14:53:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 Comment on Man Faces 16 Child Sex Abuse Charges by d.c.r http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/man-faces-16-child-sex-abuse-charges/comment-page-1/#comment-7608 d.c.r Mon, 21 May 2012 14:53:11 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=29285#comment-7608 Please keep me updated on the outcome i will keep you advised this preditor / groomer must never get out . The creep has been quiet and is still roaming out on bail . Please keep me updated on the outcome i will keep you advised this preditor / groomer must never get out . The creep has been quiet and is still roaming out on bail .

]]> Comment on Mom Defends Her Baby’s Abuser by beba http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/mom-defends-her-babys-abuser/comment-page-1/#comment-7607 beba Mon, 21 May 2012 12:46:56 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=29698#comment-7607 that right there is not a mother she is someone not worth having a child... i would pay a man to try and hit my child! that right there is not a mother she is someone not worth having a child… i would pay a man to try and hit my child!

]]> Comment on Public Cry For Help: One Woman’s Open Letter by Ann Marquez http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/public-cry-for-help-one-womans-open-letter/comment-page-1/#comment-7605 Ann Marquez Fri, 18 May 2012 11:13:46 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=29570#comment-7605 I have just read this horrific story...I was a senior litigator for NYC's CPS....and I resigned to work with families and children that are "stuck" in similar issues. Go to my website and contact me. I have just read this horrific story…I was a senior litigator for NYC’s CPS….and I resigned to work with families and children that are “stuck” in similar issues. Go to my website and contact me.

]]> Comment on Public Cry For Help: One Woman’s Open Letter by Danny Medrano http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/public-cry-for-help-one-womans-open-letter/comment-page-1/#comment-7603 Danny Medrano Thu, 17 May 2012 04:18:44 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=29570#comment-7603 How can we help? How can we help?

]]> Comment on Public Cry For Help: One Woman’s Open Letter by Sandy http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/public-cry-for-help-one-womans-open-letter/comment-page-1/#comment-7602 Sandy Thu, 17 May 2012 03:21:56 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=29570#comment-7602 My family and I would just like to thank you from the bottom of our hearts for helping us get our story out and for showing such care And concern for our precious grandchildren, they are our heart. My family and I would just like to thank you from the bottom of our
hearts for helping us get our story out and for showing such care
And concern for our precious grandchildren, they are our heart.

]]> Comment on How Police Deal with Investigating Child Abuse by gena mccarty http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2010/02/how-police-deal-with-investigating-child-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-7597 gena mccarty Sun, 13 May 2012 10:32:53 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=4053#comment-7597 i would like to speak with you about my horrible situation everthing i mention i have paperwork to back me up with facts in 2009 my husband left me while i was in the recovery room from my 13 heart surgery he came back nand put a gun down my throat i got a top and was granted a final, then i got a teop for our then 4 year old son and was granted a final kevin was deputized in boone county on 11-3-09nwith 2 final dvps kevin was not a officer in this state prior. kevin has had me arrested 17 times since becoming a deputy each time either the charges get dropped or i am found not guity by a jury of boone county residents kevin during his tesimony inuniform stated herount of the boone filed the charges to manipulate custody and then perjured himself under oath, in uniform, with the boone county prosecuting attorney, the chief deputy (his boss) and the magistrate of boone county stating he had no dvps against him when he took his oath of office. and prior to his testimony his chief deputy testified that kevin did have 2 dvps and he had to turn his weapon in at the end of each shift. however when kevin denied this and then my attorney handed him the paperwork, he stated he had never seen this. and not one of the three people which is required by law to charge anyone with perjury did anything. anyway, i am a documented victim of domestic violence i have letters from my advocate and counsler and from my physcians who actually reported kevin to aps and cps while we were married. however the worst is that my 4 year old son told dr. dunlap who was putting things in his butt and then took a pen out of the doctors hand and showed the doctor with a hole in the wall what was done to him. dr. dunlap called cps, i filed a edvp it was granted. no one from cps or police showed up. then in may 2010 jax returned from a visit with his dad with 14 human bite marks on his chest arms and back and multiple bruises on him from being kicked but he could not tell me who did this or it would be worse. the next day he said him and daddy took a plan to las vegas and dakota did this. in febuary cps put a saftey plan in place that jax could not be around his 1/2 brothers without 24 hour supervison at all times and i was to be notified and given the opportunity to have jax with me. well i was not told kevin took him out of the state and jax was not supervised. so when i took him to the er for severe abdominal pain jax then revealed to staff how he had been hit and where and by his dad and his dads fathers 3rd wife. additionally he finally told staff who bite and kicked him. also when the doctor made the referral cps informed him that an investigation in 2/2010 resulted in documented/diagnosed sexual abuse/neglect by his 10year old 1/2 dakota and neglect on kevins part. i was unaware and uninformed they even did a investigation. then i find out that in december/january of 2009/2010 cps documented kevin was guilty of using excessive corpral punishment as daily displine for jax t 5 years old. however cps did not follow protocal, did not report this to law enforcement nor put child with non abusive parent. i have been investigated 2x by cps at kevins request and both times found to be at low to no risk. kevin was found to be guilty of neglect which lead to sexual abuse and kevin was found to be at high risk to jax for abuse in the future. then just recently came accross a letter the advocate in greenbrier county wrote to out family court judge stating she contacted branches in cabell county and they were aware of this case and were aware that cps and the legal system was ignoring the sexual, physcial, emotional abuse by kevin to myself and jax. kevin in 32010 when he wrote the arrest complaint against me then drove to logan county to cps to get a saftey plan , the saftey plan was granted and states due to arresting deputies concern for minor child saftey due to the violent circumstances surrounding mothers pending arrest a saftey plan will be issued. again kevin filed the charges, signed the warrent for alleged harassing phone calls. their was no violent circumstance to this. yet once again boone county supported kevins victimization of me by paying him while on duty to file charges and then drive to another county because boone county cps said it was a conflict and the reason for arrest did not require cps involvement so kevin just went to the next county. this is the arrest where a jury found me not guilty and kevin admitted he filed the charges to manipulate custody. i have the dvds from court to verify his testimony. anyway. i have not seen my son in 1 year kevin has moved and notified the court, the judge has never made a final custody order however law enforcement agency will take a criminal complaint of child concealment. i dont know where jax lives, where he started school if he did and no one will help me. i am dealing with the goveners office jennifer ferrell and trooper patterson but still nothing. the attorney general did not get back to me. the coalition of domestic violence was really helping me from 6/2010 threw 7/2011 when my counsler informed me that her supervisor told her they could not longer provide me any services due to personnel reasons. the advocate was to take me to the police station to file a report and 4 days later he called and said due to personell reasons he would no longer help me. in june 2011 joyce and nikki with the coalition was to go with me to cps to review reports that were incorrect and that never happened they got me approved for 1000.00 in attorney fees but wont find me a lawyer. and in the past three months no one will even return my calls. again i have doctor report starting in 2008 from referals to cps/aps for domestic abuse, kevin was arrest in 10/08 for domestic assult and 4 outstanding warrents from neveda and montana. kevin has had his rights terminated to one child and his custodial rights terminated to the other. we have never had a final divorce hearing. i have never testified or spoke in any hearing. and yet i continue to be harassed arrested and threated by every law enforcement agency. i spoke with trooper patterson on 2/2012 regarding conduct and violating my federal rights and harassment of certain troopers and gave him names and dates.i was told by trooper hash in 2/2012 that if i ever called 911 or the state police again over anything but especially deputy mccarty he would arrest me, then he said im not waiting the office pool is who can get you convicted 1st so ill be up soon. he never showed up but about 25 days ago my father myself and my sister notied on 7 different occasions the same car with 3 people in it getting in my mail, opening it and leaving. one evening while running to my house i feel on the wet grass and fractured my back i went to urgent care and they documented why i feel on may 5th about 8 days later my sister was on her way home called me at our mother and said they are out in frount of your house on is at your door and on in your mail i ran out the door down the street kim pulled up and yelled and then the back seet person fired 2 shots at me and then they flew off. i did call 911 trooper hash meet me on rt 60. refused to take a report refused to come to my house to see if anyone was there and told me no one in this county cares and if someone cant back my story up he would arrest me. then in march 2010 judge anderson made an order that eugenia mccarty could no longer file any dvps against the deputy on behalf of her or their son. and in 2011 when i found out kevin had moved, could not find my son, did not have a number nothing i tried to file a dvp for child concealment. magistrate darrell black told me i could be shot in the court house infrount of lawenforcement and judges and i could not be granted a dvp for any reason. in 8/2011 kevin broke 6 bones in my face det. robertson refused to take pictures or file charges. i need help, again i have every document to support everything i have said any suggestions? additionally kevin has never taken a parenting class, we have no parenting plan, ray nolan was appointed gal for jax and was to have a report for the court in11/09 no report. jaxs gal has never seen jax with either parent, he came to my home but jax was not their he meet kevin at a dinner so he has never meet jax does not know where he lives with kevin. never spoke to branche3s or my doctors about the domestic violence never investigated or spoke to anyone especially jax about the molestation sexual abuse and physical abuse. i wont give up and if you would just give me 15 to show you it would blow your mind. my name is gena mccarty 3047435283 1011 sunset terrace milton wv 25541 i would like to speak with you about my horrible situation everthing i mention i have paperwork to back me up with facts in 2009 my husband left me while i was in the recovery room from my 13 heart surgery he came back nand put a gun down my throat i got a top and was granted a final, then i got a teop for our then 4 year old son and was granted a final kevin was deputized in boone county on 11-3-09nwith 2 final dvps kevin was not a officer in this state prior. kevin has had me arrested 17 times since becoming a deputy each time either the charges get dropped or i am found not guity by a jury of boone county residents kevin during his tesimony inuniform stated herount of the boone filed the charges to manipulate custody and then perjured himself under oath, in uniform, with the boone county prosecuting attorney, the chief deputy (his boss) and the magistrate of boone county stating he had no dvps against him when he took his oath of office. and prior to his testimony his chief deputy testified that kevin did have 2 dvps and he had to turn his weapon in at the end of each shift. however when kevin denied this and then my attorney handed him the paperwork, he stated he had never seen this. and not one of the three people which is required by law to charge anyone with perjury did anything. anyway, i am a documented victim of domestic violence i have letters from my advocate and counsler and from my physcians who actually reported kevin to aps and cps while we were married. however the worst is that my 4 year old son told dr. dunlap who was putting things in his butt and then took a pen out of the doctors hand and showed the doctor with a hole in the wall what was done to him. dr. dunlap called cps, i filed a edvp it was granted. no one from cps or police showed up. then in may 2010 jax returned from a visit with his dad with 14 human bite marks on his chest arms and back and multiple bruises on him from being kicked but he could not tell me who did this or it would be worse. the next day he said him and daddy took a plan to las vegas and dakota did this. in febuary cps put a saftey plan in place that jax could not be around his 1/2 brothers without 24 hour supervison at all times and i was to be notified and given the opportunity to have jax with me. well i was not told kevin took him out of the state and jax was not supervised. so when i took him to the er for severe abdominal pain jax then revealed to staff how he had been hit and where and by his dad and his dads fathers 3rd wife. additionally he finally told staff who bite and kicked him. also when the doctor made the referral cps informed him that an investigation in 2/2010 resulted in documented/diagnosed sexual abuse/neglect by his 10year old 1/2 dakota and neglect on kevins part. i was unaware and uninformed they even did a investigation. then i find out that in december/january of 2009/2010 cps documented kevin was guilty of using excessive corpral punishment as daily displine for jax t 5 years old. however cps did not follow protocal, did not report this to law enforcement nor put child with non abusive parent. i have been investigated 2x by cps at kevins request and both times found to be at low to no risk. kevin was found to be guilty of neglect which lead to sexual abuse and kevin was found to be at high risk to jax for abuse in the future. then just recently came accross a letter the advocate in greenbrier county wrote to out family court judge stating she contacted branches in cabell county and they were aware of this case and were aware that cps and the legal system was ignoring the sexual, physcial, emotional abuse by kevin to myself and jax. kevin in 32010 when he wrote the arrest complaint against me then drove to logan county to cps to get a saftey plan , the saftey plan was granted and states due to arresting deputies concern for minor child saftey due to the violent circumstances surrounding mothers pending arrest a saftey plan will be issued. again kevin filed the charges, signed the warrent for alleged harassing phone calls. their was no violent circumstance to this. yet once again boone county supported kevins victimization of me by paying him while on duty to file charges and then drive to another county because boone county cps said it was a conflict and the reason for arrest did not require cps involvement so kevin just went to the next county. this is the arrest where a jury found me not guilty and kevin admitted he filed the charges to manipulate custody. i have the dvds from court to verify his testimony. anyway. i have not seen my son in 1 year kevin has moved and notified the court, the judge has never made a final custody order however law enforcement agency will take a criminal complaint of child concealment. i dont know where jax lives, where he started school if he did and no one will help me. i am dealing with the goveners office jennifer ferrell and trooper patterson but still nothing. the attorney general did not get back to me. the coalition of domestic violence was really helping me from 6/2010 threw 7/2011 when my counsler informed me that her supervisor told her they could not longer provide me any services due to personnel reasons. the advocate was to take me to the police station to file a report and 4 days later he called and said due to personell reasons he would no longer help me. in june 2011 joyce and nikki with the coalition was to go with me to cps to review reports that were incorrect and that never happened they got me approved for 1000.00 in attorney fees but wont find me a lawyer. and in the past three months no one will even return my calls. again i have doctor report starting in 2008 from referals to cps/aps for domestic abuse, kevin was arrest in 10/08 for domestic assult and 4 outstanding warrents from neveda and montana. kevin has had his rights terminated to one child and his custodial rights terminated to the other. we have never had a final divorce hearing. i have never testified or spoke in any hearing. and yet i continue to be harassed arrested and threated by every law enforcement agency. i spoke with trooper patterson on 2/2012 regarding conduct and violating my federal rights and harassment of certain troopers and gave him names and dates.i was told by trooper hash in 2/2012 that if i ever called 911 or the state police again over anything but especially deputy mccarty he would arrest me, then he said im not waiting the office pool is who can get you convicted 1st so ill be up soon. he never showed up but about 25 days ago my father myself and my sister notied on 7 different occasions the same car with 3 people in it getting in my mail, opening it and leaving. one evening while running to my house i feel on the wet grass and fractured my back i went to urgent care and they documented why i feel on may 5th about 8 days later my sister was on her way home called me at our mother and said they are out in frount of your house on is at your door and on in your mail i ran out the door down the street kim pulled up and yelled and then the back seet person fired 2 shots at me and then they flew off. i did call 911 trooper hash meet me on rt 60. refused to take a report refused to come to my house to see if anyone was there and told me no one in this county cares and if someone cant back my story up he would arrest me. then in march 2010 judge anderson made an order that eugenia mccarty could no longer file any dvps against the deputy on behalf of her or their son. and in 2011 when i found out kevin had moved, could not find my son, did not have a number nothing i tried to file a dvp for child concealment. magistrate darrell black told me i could be shot in the court house infrount of lawenforcement and judges and i could not be granted a dvp for any reason. in 8/2011 kevin broke 6 bones in my face det. robertson refused to take pictures or file charges. i need help, again i have every document to support everything i have said any suggestions? additionally kevin has never taken a parenting class, we have no parenting plan, ray nolan was appointed gal for jax and was to have a report for the court in11/09 no report. jaxs gal has never seen jax with either parent, he came to my home but jax was not their he meet kevin at a dinner so he has never meet jax does not know where he lives with kevin. never spoke to branche3s or my doctors about the domestic violence never investigated or spoke to anyone especially jax about the molestation sexual abuse and physical abuse. i wont give up and if you would just give me 15 to show you it would blow your mind. my name is gena mccarty 3047435283 1011 sunset terrace milton wv 25541

]]> Comment on Man Faces 16 Child Sex Abuse Charges by d.c.r http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/man-faces-16-child-sex-abuse-charges/comment-page-1/#comment-7595 d.c.r Fri, 11 May 2012 17:27:01 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=29285#comment-7595 Why is the lil girls mother hanging with him after he did that to her daughter she is a evil woman ..... Why is the lil girls mother hanging with him after he did that to her daughter she is a evil woman …..

]]> Comment on Graphic Child Abuse! by Chanthy http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/graphic-child-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-7593 Chanthy Fri, 11 May 2012 00:34:16 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=29224#comment-7593 Thank god she was arrested. Its one less animal off the street abusing these young and innocent children. I pray that the baby is okay. I dont know how they could even consider giving the child back to her. No one like that deserves a second chance. No one. Once a dog, always a dog. Thank god she was arrested. Its one less animal off the street abusing these young and innocent children. I pray that the baby is okay. I dont know how they could even consider giving the child back to her. No one like that deserves a second chance. No one. Once a dog, always a dog.

]]> Comment on Graphic Child Abuse! by Chrystal http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/graphic-child-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-7592 Chrystal Thu, 10 May 2012 15:03:18 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=29224#comment-7592 This woman has already been arrested, and is serving an 18 month jail sentence: http://www.mmail.com.my/story/teen-mum-abuse-video-jail This woman has already been arrested, and is serving an 18 month jail sentence:

http://www.mmail.com.my/story/teen-mum-abuse-video-jail

]]> Comment on Child Abuse Quotes by Quote abuse | Simonito http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/media/child-abuse-quotes/comment-page-1/#comment-7591 Quote abuse | Simonito Thu, 10 May 2012 08:19:12 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?page_id=17633#comment-7591 [...] Child Abuse QuotesMar 11, 2011 … CHILD ABUSE QUOTES & SAYINGS. Child abuse casts a shadow the length of a lifetime. ~ Herbert Ward. Children are like wet cement. [...] [...] Child Abuse QuotesMar 11, 2011 … CHILD ABUSE QUOTES & SAYINGS. Child abuse casts a shadow the length of a lifetime. ~ Herbert Ward. Children are like wet cement. [...]

]]> Comment on Graphic Child Abuse! by Renee http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/graphic-child-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-7590 Renee Thu, 10 May 2012 06:51:39 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=29224#comment-7590 This is an extremely disturbing video showing a very serious crime. I cried. I also submitted the youtube links to the video (more than one, actually) with a tip to the FBI. I don't know if they can do anything, but I just couldn't let this go and do nothing. I also contacted America's Most Wanted, though I'm not sure the crime is happening in the US. I felt that maybe someone there would know who to contact and how to help. This is an extremely disturbing video showing a very serious crime. I cried. I also submitted the youtube links to the video (more than one, actually) with a tip to the FBI. I don’t know if they can do anything, but I just couldn’t let this go and do nothing. I also contacted America’s Most Wanted, though I’m not sure the crime is happening in the US. I felt that maybe someone there would know who to contact and how to help.

]]> Comment on PHOTOS ~ VIDEOS by J. Jones http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/volunteer/comment-page-1/#comment-7589 J. Jones Thu, 10 May 2012 06:24:48 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?page_id=75#comment-7589 I think that this is something worth looking into : SICK MOTHER BEATING UP 8 MONTH OLD BABY! (share to raise awareness) Published on May 9, 2012 by1lalagreeze. I think that this is something worth looking into : SICK MOTHER BEATING UP 8 MONTH OLD BABY! (share to raise awareness) Published on May 9, 2012 by1lalagreeze.

]]> Comment on Graphic Child Abuse! by Emily http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/graphic-child-abuse/comment-page-1/#comment-7588 Emily Thu, 10 May 2012 03:46:10 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=29224#comment-7588 Why is that I can't have children who would love to have a child, and people like this can have them just to abuse them? Why is that I can’t have children who would love to have a child, and people like this can have them just to abuse them?

]]> Comment on Report Abuse by Eve http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/abuse/report-abuse-2/comment-page-1/#comment-7587 Eve Wed, 09 May 2012 22:30:34 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?page_id=18850#comment-7587 http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=283319365095176&set=vb.195791597138096&type=2&theater Hello, this is a video posted on FB. Not much is shared but if someone could track where the video came from ... this monster must be stopped! Please, please, please do what you can. I am speechless. I can't even put into words what happens in that video. Please let me know if anything was done. I don't know where the video originated but I see it is posted on Facebook to a page - ItsMeSaiful http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=283319365095176&set=vb.195791597138096&type=2&theater
Hello,
this is a video posted on FB. Not much is shared but if someone could track where the video came from … this monster must be stopped! Please, please, please do what you can. I am speechless. I can’t even put into words what happens in that video. Please let me know if anything was done. I don’t know where the video originated but I see it is posted on Facebook to a page – ItsMeSaiful

]]> Comment on FL–Bradley Wes Calloway Arrested For Capital Sexual Battery by pacquiao vs bradley http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2009/12/fl-bradley-wes-calloway-arrested-for-capital-sexual-battery/comment-page-1/#comment-7585 pacquiao vs bradley Wed, 09 May 2012 03:31:30 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=2614#comment-7585 Wonderful work! That is the kind of information that are supposed to be shared across the web. Shame on Google for not positioning this publish upper! Come on over and seek advice from my site . Thanks =) Wonderful work! That is the kind of information that are supposed to be shared across the web.
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]]> Comment on Severely Abused 4-MO Infant Continues his Struggle To Survive by Christie http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/severely-abused-4-mo-infant-continues-his-struggle-to-survive/comment-page-1/#comment-7584 Christie Tue, 08 May 2012 04:24:02 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=29045#comment-7584 A truly awesome & amazing miracle survival in progress. God has special guardian angels for this baby boy. A truly awesome & amazing miracle survival in progress. God has special guardian angels for this baby boy.

]]> Comment on North Carolina Judge Dismisses Death Penalty Under Racial Justice Law by Jay Chong http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/04/north-carolina-judge-dismisses-death-penalty-under-racial-justice-law/comment-page-1/#comment-7583 Jay Chong Mon, 07 May 2012 21:45:12 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=28262#comment-7583 I think the proponents of the "racial justice act" chose the wrong test case. Saving a man who the appeals judge believes is guilty of kidnapping and murdering a teenage is politically insane. http://lawblog.legalmatch.com/2012/05/07/judge-reduces-penalty-death-row-inmate-racial-justice-act/ I think the proponents of the “racial justice act” chose the wrong test case. Saving a man who the appeals judge believes is guilty of kidnapping and murdering a teenage is politically insane. http://lawblog.legalmatch.com/2012/05/07/judge-reduces-penalty-death-row-inmate-racial-justice-act/

]]> Comment on Facebook Social Network Child Predator Playground–Child Rape Images Circulating by angela http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/facebook-social-network-child-predator-playground-child-rape-images-circulating/comment-page-1/#comment-7582 angela Mon, 07 May 2012 19:09:59 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=29076#comment-7582 Privacy is not an option for children who live under their parents roofs! Know your childs facebook(or any other social network)profile. Know who is on your childs contact list. Know who their friends are. When your child is paying their own rent,electricity,clothing accounts,car instalments and earn their own salaries and live in their own home THEN they qualify for privacy. Too many parents allow their kids too much freedom-in todays world that can cost them their lives. Parents stand up and protect your kids! They may resent it now but they will thank you later. Privacy is not an option for children who live under their parents roofs! Know your childs facebook(or any other social network)profile. Know who is on your childs contact list. Know who their friends are. When your child is paying their own rent,electricity,clothing accounts,car instalments and earn their own salaries and live in their own home THEN they qualify for privacy. Too many parents allow their kids too much freedom-in todays world that can cost them their lives. Parents stand up and protect your kids! They may resent it now but they will thank you later.

]]> Comment on Mother Charged With Murder by LLythellen Fender http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/04/mother-charged-with-murder-2/comment-page-1/#comment-7580 LLythellen Fender Mon, 07 May 2012 02:30:01 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=28598#comment-7580 she is 25 years old, I have known her since i was young. No child deserves to die. But i can tell you if she did it then she deserves to go to prison. So it dont happen again.. she is 25 years old, I have known her since i was young. No child deserves to die. But i can tell you if she did it then she deserves to go to prison. So it dont happen again..

]]> Comment on 7-MO Baby Dies In Hot Car by Lynne Carroll http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/7-mo-baby-dies-in-hot-car/comment-page-1/#comment-7578 Lynne Carroll Sat, 05 May 2012 21:46:45 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=28947#comment-7578 This is so sad. If he needed a sitter, he should have got one. What was he thinking! This is so sad. If he needed a sitter, he should have got one. What was he thinking!

]]> Comment on Murdered Boy Had “Too Many Scars To Count” by Jane LeMond-Alvarez http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/murdered-boy-had-too-many-scars-to-count/comment-page-1/#comment-7577 Jane LeMond-Alvarez Fri, 04 May 2012 23:37:36 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=28863#comment-7577 I am so outraged right now...I could spit nails. I am so outraged right now…I could spit nails.

]]> Comment on FBI Search for Missing Family by can you believe http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/fbi-search-for-missing-family/comment-page-1/#comment-7576 can you believe Fri, 04 May 2012 15:36:15 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=28832#comment-7576 Progressive data files shows that Oughout.Nasiums. cases of divorce statistics are usually enlarging year after year. The best, records as well as , estimations around Within exactly how do not ever describe complete piece about the lifestyle. You will find other things to consider affecting a simple odds are for a marriage ceremony. All sorts of things this nation continues to the goals been a commitment uniting a family they like that should be true to one another. Progressive data files shows that Oughout.Nasiums.
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to the goals been a commitment uniting a family they like that should be true to one another.

]]> Comment on One Man’s Journey: Child Sexual Abuse Aftermath by dawn http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/one-mans-journey-child-sexual-abuse-aftermath/comment-page-1/#comment-7575 dawn Fri, 04 May 2012 09:49:42 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=28853#comment-7575 This is a brief poem with regard to my own experience as a child abuse victim...There once was a little girl.. She was only 3... She lived in fear in her own home... Abused and imprisoned by her own family... At the hands of her mom and dad... She was told by her sibling...mommy cried when you came... To this day the first born laughs and tells how they threw grass and dirt in her baby bed... Mommy wanted a boy and when you came she was upset and sad...to the little sister... That was what the oldest said.. She cried alone often wondering...why mommy didn't love her in return... Seems her mommy was advised by her mother/her daddy was a good provider.. That should be your first concern... Mommy had caught daddy doing things to her which were bad... The 3 year old was punished and blamed.. by grandma, mom and dad.. Mommy often beat her with daddy's belt bare-bottomed on the freezer in the garage... It made her so sad... She was threatened by the 3 to keep the dirty secret... Or awful things would occur... Daddy continued for years...... Abused and forever scarred... It was so hard to endure... To the town-folk...this family seemed perfect..and pure. She was often punished and sent to bed with no dinner.... She got the blame for all that went wrong... Even though , grandma, sissy and daddy were the sinners... Around age 12 she remembered daddy tickling her in front of mommy.. On the floor.. She gave him the benefit of the doubt when his hand went where she knew he had no right.. After he did it the second time....she became angry..fought..and got up and sat by her mom..and firmly stated her hate of tickling ..and nobody better ever do it again... His abuse she would put an end to....forever she'd defend herself.. and put up one hell of a fight.. There is so much more to that girl's story... Ironically she honored them all... In the end had she not been there for them.. They'd have all fallen.. Their secret shes kept to herself..memories flooded her before her mother passed away... The few members of her family left her to deal alone.. She had nowhere to turn... In the end she'd be blamed for the mess she was left to clean up... Even though she was ill and had no business doing it all.. They'd finally break her soul after all the good she'd done.. Harassment and heartache is what she'd recieve for her honor in return.... This is a brief poem with regard to my own experience as a child abuse victim…There once was a little girl..
She was only 3…
She lived in fear in her own home…
Abused and imprisoned by her own family…
At the hands of her mom and dad…

She was told by her sibling…mommy cried when you came…
To this day the first born laughs and tells how they threw grass and dirt in her baby bed…
Mommy wanted a boy and when you came she was upset and sad…to the little sister…
That was what the oldest said..

She cried alone often wondering…why mommy didn’t love her in return…
Seems her mommy was advised by her mother/her daddy was a good provider..
That should be your first concern…

Mommy had caught daddy doing things to her which were bad…
The 3 year old was punished and blamed..
by grandma,
mom and dad..
Mommy often beat her with daddy’s belt bare-bottomed
on the freezer in the garage…
It made her so sad…

She was threatened by the 3 to keep the dirty secret…
Or awful things would occur…
Daddy continued for years……
Abused and forever scarred…
It was so hard to endure…
To the town-folk…this family seemed perfect..and pure.

She was often punished and sent to bed with no dinner….
She got the blame for all that went wrong…
Even though , grandma, sissy and daddy were the sinners…

Around age 12 she remembered daddy tickling her in front of mommy..
On the floor..
She gave him the benefit of the doubt when his hand went where she
knew he had no right..
After he did it the second time….she became angry..fought..and got up
and sat by her mom..and firmly stated her hate of tickling ..and
nobody better ever do it again…
His abuse she would put an end to….forever she’d defend herself..
and put up one hell of a fight..

There is so much more to that girl’s story…
Ironically she honored them all…
In the end had she not been there for them..
They’d have all fallen..

Their secret shes kept to herself..memories flooded her before her mother passed away…
The few members of her family left her to deal alone..
She had nowhere to turn…
In the end she’d be blamed for the mess she was left to clean up…
Even though she was ill and had no business doing it all..
They’d finally break her soul after all the good she’d done..
Harassment and heartache is what she’d recieve for her honor in return….

]]> Comment on See Something? SAY Something! by linda http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/see-something-say-something/comment-page-1/#comment-7574 linda Fri, 04 May 2012 07:58:41 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=28936#comment-7574 I agree 100% until people quit being ashamed to bring this out in the open it will continue. Look forward to seeing my book out in stores soon. I agree 100% until people quit being ashamed to bring this out in the open it will continue. Look forward to seeing my book out in stores soon.

]]> Comment on Murdered Boy Had “Too Many Scars To Count” by Shawn http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/2012/05/murdered-boy-had-too-many-scars-to-count/comment-page-1/#comment-7573 Shawn Fri, 04 May 2012 04:29:01 +0000 http://dreamcatchersforabusedchildren.com/?p=28863#comment-7573 The frustrating part of reporting child abuse is the lack of "evidence". My then 3 yr. old granddaughter was being abused by her stepmom. A huge bite on her arm was reported but the stepmom got away with it because there was not conclusive evidence that it was she who did it. The fact that my granddaughter could not tell the time of day or the day that it happened also made it hard to make charges stick. An abused animal that cannot tell the day or time of the abuse has more rights than a child does. Unfortunately, a child has to suffer many incidents of abuse before he or she gets any justice. Sometimes death occurs first. It is very enraging! The frustrating part of reporting child abuse is the lack of “evidence”. My then 3 yr. old granddaughter was being abused by her stepmom. A huge bite on her arm was reported but the stepmom got away with it because there was not conclusive evidence that it was she who did it. The fact that my granddaughter could not tell the time of day or the day that it happened also made it hard to make charges stick. An abused animal that cannot tell the day or time of the abuse has more rights than a child does. Unfortunately, a child has to suffer many incidents of abuse before he or she gets any justice. Sometimes death occurs first. It is very enraging!

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