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The Amanda Todd Story: Still Being Bullied Even After Her Death

Posted by Sandra On October - 15 - 2012 ADD COMMENTS
The RCMP have been inundated with tips in their investigation into the death of Amanda Todd
Even as anti-bullying activists and most of the world mourns the suspected suicidal death of bullied Canadian teen Amanda Todd, cyberbullies are still beating up on the now deceased 15-year old as vengeful and hateful posts to the Facebook memorial pages established to honor her began appearing yesterday. According to The Star, bullies are not only posting hate messages, but inappropriate photos. One image depicted a silhouette of a female body hanging dead with the caption, “Todding.”  READ MORE HERE
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Bullied Teen Amanda Todd Leaves Behind Chilling YouTube Video

Amanda Todd’s alleged tormentor named by hacker group, Anonymous

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Crisis helplines

Wyoming Suspect Jesse Speer

Posted by Sandra On October - 15 - 2012 ADD COMMENTS

Jesse Paul Speer allegedly told his Wyoming kidnap victim to put her head down as he drove his SUV through town after stopping a church parking lot in order to tie the 11-year-old Cody resident’s hands. When she attempted to raise her head up, he hit her with the butt of his gun, the Billings Gazette reported. More details have been revealed as well now that the man has been apprehended and kept inside the Gallatin County Detention Center on a $2 million bond since the weekend, including how he enticed her to help him look for his dog and then abducted her from her friends.  READ MORE HERE

Jimmy Savile Child Rape Scandal

Posted by Sandra On October - 15 - 2012 ADD COMMENTS

Vile Jimmy Savile preyed on vulnerable patients at all-girl discos he ran at Broadmoor psychiatric hospital, it emerged last night. The sexual predator used his unlimited access on the wards to recruit the young women for his private parties where he exclusively installed himself as DJ. Dressed up as “therapeutic entertainment”, his discos in the 70s, which Savile insisted on making, “lasses only” – gave him the opportunity to mingle with unsuspecting victims, away from staff. READ MORE HERE

Child Abuse Hotline Overwhelmed With Calls

Posted by Sandra On October - 15 - 2012 ADD COMMENTS

Child abuse investigations usually begin with a phone call. More than 400 times each day, someone in Tennessee — a family member, concerned neighbor, teacher, police officer, or doctor — dials a hotline to warn of a child in danger. More often than not, the call ends up on hold. During the last two years, the department hasn’t answered its phones as quickly as it used to, so more callers than ever have been hanging up — as many 25 percent in the early months of 2012, department data show. Nobody can say what happens to those thousands of callers and their concerns, or whether chances to help children are being missed. READ MORE HERE

Students Raped, Beaten, Killed

Posted by Sandra On October - 15 - 2012 ADD COMMENTS

Florida’s Dozier School For Boys: A True Horror Story

Florida Panhandle may be home to a secret that has been laying in the grass and under rusted white metal crosses since the 1900. Dozier School for Boys, was under investigation in 2009 after a total of 50 students shown up unaccounted for by the former reform school. The now shuttered school was rumored to be home to severe abuse that some former students, now in their late 60?s and older, blame for the death of fellow residents. READ MORE HERE

The Lost Boys: 50 New Graves Uncovered At ‘House Of Horrors’ Reform School

Long-Term Effects of Child Abuse

Posted by Sandra On October - 13 - 2012 Comments Off on Long-Term Effects of Child Abuse

The Impact of Childhood Abuse on Women’s Adult Relationships

Children who have been victims of maltreatment can develop emotional regulation problems that affect many areas of their lives. Some survivors of abuse can experience symptoms of post-traumatic stress, anxiety, and depression throughout life. Coping and relational skills learned in childhood form the foundation from which future behaviors evolve. It has been hypothesized that women who survived maltreatment, in the form of physical or sexual abuse or neglect, will have sexual challenges in adult relationships. To test this theory, Alessandra H. Rellini of the Department of Psychology at the University of Vermont conducted a study involving 192 women ranging in age from 18 to 25.  READ MORE HERE

Kaliq Mansor Guilty of Murder

Posted by Sandra On October - 13 - 2012 ADD COMMENTS

SEATTLE — An Oregon man who conducted Internet searches for the phrase “father hates infant” and had a violent child abuse video game on his computer was convicted Friday of murdering his 11-month-old twin son. A jury in Washington County, Ore., deliberated about two hours before convicting Kaliq Mansor, 34, who had called 911 in June 2011 to report that his infant son Bryan was not breathing.  READ MORE HERE

Man Found Guilty of Murder

Posted by Sandra On October - 13 - 2012 Comments Off on Man Found Guilty of Murder

A Detroit father was found guilty Friday of murder and child abuse after prosecutors say he killed his two-year-old daughter and then faked a carjacking to cover up the crime. D’Andre Lane, 32, sat silent as the Wayne County Circuit Court jury foreman read the verdicts on both charges. ‘This has been a very long and very emotional case for everyone involved,’ Judge Vonda Evans told the court. READ MORE HERE

Obstetrician Accidentally Decapitated Baby During Birth

Posted by Sandra On October - 13 - 2012 Comments Off on Obstetrician Accidentally Decapitated Baby During Birth

DOCTOR TRIED TO COVER UP DECAPITATION BY DOING AN EMERGENCY C-SECTION

A grieving St Louis couple has sued two obstetricians for malpractice after a horrifying experience in the delivery room resulted in the gruesome death of their son. Arteisha Betts and Travis Ammonette of Florissant, Missouri, claim that their baby was decapitated during an erroneous attempt at a vaginal delivery by Gilbert Webb, MD, who then forced the baby’s body and head back into the birth canal and attempted to perform a Cesarean section.  READ MORE HERE

Mother Burned Her Child for Touching Her iPad

Posted by Sandra On October - 13 - 2012 Comments Off on Mother Burned Her Child for Touching Her iPad

A Lynnwood, Washington woman has been arrested on charges that she burned her son’s hands and poured salt in his wounds to discipline him. Karrina Torrescano Hernandez is accused of holding her six-year-old son’s hands over a hot spiral stove element and then pouring salt into the burns, in an effort to teach him not to touch her iPad.  READ MORE HERE

Teacher Accused of Raping Student

Posted by Sandra On October - 13 - 2012 Comments Off on Teacher Accused of Raping Student

Pennington County authorities arrested a New Underwood High School teacher on rape and sexual-contact charges Thursday evening. Kyle Keegan, 26, was arrested in Rapid City, where he lives, according to a news release from the Pennington County Sheriff’s Office. Keegan made his initial court appearance from Pennington County Jail on Friday morning. He is charged with fourth-degree rape of a victim between the ages of 13 and 15 and sexual contact with a child younger than 16. His bond was set at $50,000.   READ MORE HERE

 

HS Quarterback Charged With Child Rape

Posted by Sandra On October - 13 - 2012 Comments Off on HS Quarterback Charged With Child Rape

May Have Possibly Impregnated the 12-YO Girl

In his senior year at Mt. Pleasant, quarterback Princeton Harlan was being recruited by a plethora of universities, including Vanderbilt, Auburn, Kentucky, Notre Dame, Tennessee and South Carolina. Indeed, a bright future for Harlan until Wednesday when the 18-year-old was charged with the rape of a child. According to Anthony Bailey, a Maury County Sheriff’s Department detective, the alleged victim was a fellow student who happened to be only 12 years old. READ MORE HERE

Child Abuse & Neglect Symptoms

Posted by Sandra On October - 11 - 2012 Comments Off on Child Abuse & Neglect Symptoms

Abused or neglected children often show both physical and behavioral symptoms. Older children may not talk about the problem, because they fear or want to protect the offender or they do not believe they will be taken seriously. Sometimes children report abuse to an adult they trust. These conversations should be taken seriously and acted upon. Some symptoms are specific to certain forms of maltreatment. There are also general symptoms that can occur with all types. READ MORE HERE

 

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How to Respond

Provide safety, love and support. Let them know it’s okay to cry or be mad. Make sure your child understand it is not his or her fault. Don’t coach or pressure your child to talk about things.

Some things you can say that will help your child:

  • I believe you.
  • I know it’s not your fault.
  • I’m glad I know about it.
  • I’m sorry this happened to you.
  • I will take care of you.
  • I’m not sure what will happen next.
  • Nothing about you made this happen. It has happened to other children too.
  • You don’t need to take care of me.
  • I’m upset, but not at you.
  • I’m angry at the person who did this.
  • I’m sad. You may see me cry. That’s all right, I’ll be able to take care of you.
  • I don’t know why that happened.
  • You can still love someone but hate what they did to you.

Responses to avoid:

  • Are you sure that happened?
  • Are you telling me the truth?
  • Why are you telling me?
  • Let me know if it happens again.
  • Why didn’t you stop him/her?
  • What did you do to make this happen?
  • Why did you let this happen?

Do …

  1. Practice your response before you are in the real situation.
  2. Pay attention to your body language.  Give the child signals that you are hearing what he or she says and that you can help.
  3. Let the child know that it was brave to share something (no matter how minimal) about a difficult subject.  Be openly admiring of this courage to reinforce the disclosure process.
  4. Tell the child that you will do everything you can to see that he or she is kept safe and keep them away from the suspected offender.
  5. Affirm your caring for the child and that your relationship has not been negatively altered.  Some children ashamed and assume they are less lovable because of the abuse.
  6. As soon as possible, write down the actual words used in the disclosure and in your interaction with the child.  The child’s first statement has forensic significance and the exact words are important.
  7. Contact Child Protective Services or Law Enforcement and make a report immediately.
  8. Return to a normal routine as soon as possible.
  9. See that your child receives therapy as soon as possible. Trying to sweep the problem under the rug usually causes more problems. It will not go away.
  10. Find help for yourself. You don’t have to do it all yourself.
  11. Teach your child the rules for personal safety. Tell them what to do if someone tries to touch them in a way that makes them feel uncomfortable.
  12. Your child may need an extra sense of security; stay close and assure your child that you will keep him or her safe.

Don’t…

  1. Do not try to determine for yourself if the allegation is valid or invalid.  This is the role of law enforcement and child protective services.
  2. Do not use shocked or disbelieving body language.  The child may interpret this to mean that you find thechild unacceptable versus the act perpetrated on them.
  3. Do not try to talk a child out of what he or she is saying.  If you are skeptical, do not express your doubts to the child.  This is the task for investigators to sort through, and you can express your doubts to them.
  4. Do not stand over the child while he or she is talking.  This may cause the child to feel crowded or dominated.
  5. Do not suggest to a child that you think he or she may have been abused.  This can be damaging and is problematic in cases in which abuse did happen but the information was elicited through the use of leading questions.
  6. Do not gossip about these allegations to friends, relatives, or associates.
  7. Do NOT confront the offender.  This could be very unsafe for you and your child.

Report Now

The most important step you can take to protecting our children is to report suspected abuse.  If you feel that the child is in immediate danger, please call 911. If you need additional assistance or you are unsure of whom to contact, call the National Child Abuse Hotline at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453)

 

9-YO Girl’s Skeletal Remains Identified

Posted by Sandra On October - 11 - 2012 Comments Off on 9-YO Girl’s Skeletal Remains Identified


New Jersey police have identified a child whose skeletal remains were found in 2005 and charged three people, including her aunt and uncle, on Wednesday with covering up her death. Authorities said the body was that of 9-year-old Jon-Niece Jones, who was abused and died at her aunt’s New York City home in August 2002. READ MORE HERE

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