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Child Sexual Abuse Signs

Posted by Sandra On April - 23 - 2010


Physical signs:

physical trauma such as redness, rashes, and/or bleeding to oral, genital and/or anal areas

bruises on breasts, buttocks, lower abdomen, thighs, genital and/or rectal areas

complaints of pain or itching in genital or anal areas

difficulty walking or sitting

unusual or offensive body odors

difficulty in bladder or bowel control


pain or discomfort on urination

blood in urine

abnormal dilation of vaginal or rectal openings

foreign bodies in vaginal, rectal or urethral openings

sexually transmitted diseases found vaginally, rectally or orally

yeast or bacterial infections

frequent sore throats; difficulty swallowing; choking

ear infections/problems (see Ear infections as a sign of sexual abuse? at Ask Darlene on this site for the reason why this can be a sign)

sudden weight gain or extreme weight loss

severe psychosomatic complaints such as stomachaches and headaches

sexual behavior that is inappropriate for the child’s age

promiscuous behavior

Here are just a few points/notes about child sexual abusers that more people need to know.

– If you are a victim and they stop abusing you, don’t think it’s over. They’ll find someone else. They don’t stop until they are stopped.

– Child sexual abusers don’t just become one overnight. They start with thoughts and desires that one day they decide to act out. In many cases, they don’t even know why they are having the kind of thoughts they have, but over time, the thoughts grow stronger until they become desires, then one day become actions.

– Many of these abusers don’t want to be who they are, and sometimes don’t even know why they are the way they are. It’s a mental illness they have no control over. They need help to be normal, or at least be as normal as possible.

– Most child sexual abusers actually want help in the early stages, but then as time goes on and they progress further, they become harder and harder to help, and have less and less desire to be helped.

– If any adult seems to be spending excess time with kids, or seems to be too affectionate, you need to keep a close watch. It may not be something to worry about, but it could be, now or in the future.

– Abusers tend to start with a sexual interest in the children they know. Sometimes they end up abusing those children. Other times they go out and find other children.

Child sexual abusers can be helped in the early stages, so if someone you love is abusing you, report them to get them the help they need. The sooner you report them, the better their chances of being helped.


Sexual abuse is shrouded in secrecy.
Child and adolescent sexual abuse victims are encouraged to keep the abuse secret because:

Children fear reprisals from the offender.

Offenders tell the child that no one will believe them; and that even if someone does believe, the child will be blamed for the abuse.

Offenders openly threaten the safety of the child and/or members of the child’s family.

Offenders tell the child the perpetrator will get into trouble if anyone discloses the sexual abuse. This is particularly fearsome for the child when the perpetrator is a family member, because the child fears abandonment.

Offenders promise gifts and rewards and offer bribes for the child to keep the secret. With young children, this can be candy, toys, trips to McDonald’s. With youth, it can be videos, DVDs, rides in a car, sports tickets, sports equipment, clothes, makeup, jewellery, money, anything that is valued by the youth.


Sexual child abuse

Prevent Child Sexual Abuse: Facts About Those Who Might Commit It (PDF) – Offers warning signs of sexual abuse in children and in their adult abusers, along with tips on how to prevent and stop it. (Stop It Now!)

Understanding Child Sexual Abuse – A clear, objective explanation of the effects of child sexual abuse, the chances of recovery, and strategies for prevention. (American Psychological Association)

Sexual Abuse – Good brief description of what constitutes child sexual abuse, how to spot it, and what to do if your child tells you about it. (American Academy of Pediatrics)

A Parent’s Guide to Internet Safety – Scroll down to the subhead “What Are Signs That Your Child Might Be At Risk On-line?” for ways to recognize possible child abuse, particularly sexual abuse, on the Internet and what to do to prevent and resolve it. (Federal Bureau of Investigation)

By the time you finish reading this, 15 children will have been abused; In the next five minutes, 30 more; Within the next hour, 360 more; And by tonight, close to 8,000+ children will have suffered from abuse, 5 of which will die. Child abuse has increased 134% since 1980 and is now considered a worldwide epidemic. The high jump in child abuse deaths and the shocking increase in statistics highlights the frightening lack of public knowledge.

Educate Yourself -- Learn the Facts
It May Just Save a Child's Life!!

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