Comments on: Abuse Books

By: audrey smith

audrey smith — Tue, 24 Apr 2012 15:35:51 +0000

I am writing a research paper on children getting mentally, physically, and sexually abused. If you feel comforting talking to me about your story, I would love to hear. Email me audreysmith22@ymail.com thank you.

By: scooby6

scooby6 — Fri, 20 Apr 2012 16:55:50 +0000

This is all so familiar. I am 41 years old and the first time I was taken from the parents, I was 18 months old and no longer had an intact hymen. The last time I lived with them, I was 13 and pregnant wth the father’s baby. This is not when the torture ended however. It started up again when I was 18 and he found where I was living. It has continued with the last incident happening just a few weeks ago. I know, you are thinking, you are an adult now…the truth is that it does not matter how big you are when someneone has a gun. The father is a powerful, rich man in that town and has only been arrested 2 times for all of this. Times were way different when I was a child and now all I do is run. I have just moved to a new town where nobody knows where I am. It is very hard. I have the diagnosis of Dissociative Identity Disorder(used to be called Multiple Personality Disorder) This has been a great challenge to deal with and not as funny as the tv shows make it out to be. I have been tortured in every way his nasty mind, and the minds of his friends, could think of. All this happening while the mother called me a husband stealing whore. I have an amazing therapist now who is so devoted and goes above and beyond anything you can imagine. Evening phone calls, text messages, email and so much more. She is so good with all the parts of me even the littlest ones. I am findng some peace these days but it has been a long time coming. Take care of yourselves….Jan

By: Sandra

Sandra — Thu, 19 Apr 2012 23:16:23 +0000

Hello Raymond~ First, I am very sorry to hear about the abuse you endured as a child. What you have described is referred to as "repressed memories of child sexual abuse." Here are two very good websites that will explain more about this, and give you more insight: http://www.jimhopper.com/memory/ (and) http://www.apa.org/topics/trauma/memories.aspx

By: Raymond

Raymond — Thu, 19 Apr 2012 21:24:05 +0000

Hello my name is Raymond and I was sexual abused by two of my friends at the age of 11 through homosexual acts. They used emotion manipulation, physical force, and lethal force. It was very perverse and traumatizing. The trauma just came back to me this year at the age of 25. I can only remember 7 acts which were oral sex and 1 anal act of anal sex. What should I do next?

By: Susie Q

Susie Q — Tue, 17 Apr 2012 08:33:14 +0000

Well, I read a few of the comments, Let me tell you about me, I am a Catholic and did Day Care for 10 years, I adore children I see them as angels with halos upon there heads, innocent and helpless, yet I was doing extra day care during one night to help a friend out and because my new alarm system caused my land line not to work. I had 3 can beers with another friend who was visiting, remind you I was helping out and never hurt any child, yet the mother called the police cause she couldn’t contact me, I was stripped from my license and lost everything for child abuse and neglect. Although I was in sound mind I never never abused nor neglected those children. 1990-2000, Now I am a Grand mother and my grand baby adores me, and most all my children I took care of are my friends on FB, and they keep telling me to day care again on second generation. , any body not want your child, give them to me and I will give them love caring confort hug and a ear for listening. share there pain and teach them about God and his love for them.

By: Joy

Joy — Sun, 15 Apr 2012 14:18:51 +0000

I Feel Really Bad For These Kids. We Learned About Child Abuse At School And I Was About To Cry. I Mean What They Went Through And They Did NOTHING For This To Happen. NO ONE Deserves To Die. But Once You Take a Little Girls Or A Little Boys Life You Are SICK.! Like It All Starts With Animal Abuse. Then It Leads To Chilld abuse. So Does This Mean Your Gonna Kill Adults Next.?

By: Olivia M

Olivia M — Wed, 11 Apr 2012 14:28:06 +0000

hi, i have though of killing my self. but it never came to me. i could never go all the way with it. i always have wanted to be famous. I gave up on that dream a while ago. I am 14 almost 15 years old. I dont have troube with school work it is just the problem with getting up in the morning. I never gat sleep. when i go to sleep all i can ever think of is how crappy the next day is going to be for me. my dad beats me everymorning. it starts out with him pulling the blankets off me and dumping a ice cold glass of water on me. then he will slap me in the face. and what ever he can do. he throws alll my stuff in my room around and breaks it all. i dont have anything nice. i live in a piece of crap undone house that is cold every morning. my dad is alot bigger then me and can kick my ass any day he wants. he thinks hes the big man in the house even my mom is scarred to stand up for her self. I just want a life with out my dad. i want to be with my mom only. she is the only one that really loves me. when my dad and me fight all my mom does is cry. i love my mom and i hate seeing her like this. my parents always say that they are going to get a devorce, but it never happens. i have a counciler that i see but he dont help cause im scarred to speek up. my dad tells me that if i call somebody about it that i will be the one that will be takin away. that he will get the house and everything. i dont want to just be able to visit my mom i want to live with her and that last thing that i want is to be sent away to a foster home. today i care what people think of me and the thing that kills me the most is my apperence. i dont even leave the house with makeup on. but today i draged out of the house with no makeup, no deoderent and in my pajammas. i am totaly imbarrased and i think that gave me the courrage to call a social worker with my princable. im just so worried that im going to be put in a foster care, i think that i really will kill my self if i get put there. they say foster cares r ways to restart life and make it all better again, but i dont wanna restart, i worked so hard to get where i am and i just want help getting lifted out of the big black problem cloud. i hope people know what im going through. :\

By: schug

schug — Sat, 17 Mar 2012 17:23:07 +0000

i feel so bad for u guiz im emotionally abused by my stepdad but thats nothing compared to what u guiz put up wit i wish i could help

By: courtney fleming

courtney fleming — Mon, 12 Mar 2012 14:46:52 +0000

i was sexually abuse as a child by my brother

By: Miranda

Miranda — Fri, 09 Mar 2012 18:45:06 +0000

It’s so sad to hear all these stories. I think I am lucky that I come from my family. But pleas can you send me your stories? I need it for school thank you!

smsdsm@live.com

By: Tanya Chartrand

Tanya Chartrand — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 22:28:36 +0000

My silent scream was just released this past Monday. It was brought on with the help of counselling and finding the real good people in my life. I am 31 years old and up until Monday would always mistakenly go to the abuser for help in my life (my mother). Once the walls are open enough in your mind to be able to trust everyone can recover from this:)

By: hope&jenna

hope&jenna — Thu, 23 Feb 2012 20:39:28 +0000

im doing a project on child abuse to help u so please tell someone!!!!! im sure u will be safe soon. its not good to be sad or mad all the time so TELL SOMEONE NOW befor u get really really hurt

By: lorena

lorena — Mon, 20 Feb 2012 23:10:35 +0000

This is just really sad:/ If anyone needs someone to talk to at all you can email me to lorena.rosas18@yahoo.com Or find me on facebook at lilrosas2@yahoo.com

By: C Girl - I can help

C Girl - I can help — Tue, 14 Feb 2012 23:38:58 +0000

If anyone ever needs help, I can! I am a 21 year old female who is majoring in psychology and sociology. I am going to grad school for clinical psychology, specializing in child and family. There are always other solutions BESIDES hurting yourself. I know it is tempting, but you have more to live for! You have so much potential – I can tell you this without even knowing it because I find the best in everyone. If you need help finding something POSITIVE about yourself, just talk to me!!!

By: KeyKey

KeyKey — Mon, 13 Feb 2012 15:46:49 +0000

I have never been a victim of abuse but please whatever you do, do not give up on God. Take what has happend in your life and use that to get as closer relationship with him! Use your past and make you a stronger person because that is your ground zero. Continnue to set dreams and achive them and NEVER blame yourselve for what has happend to you.

By: andrea

andrea — Mon, 13 Feb 2012 15:09:43 +0000

i no how u guys feel. i was there and trust me life gets better and dont give up no matter how hard it may be. i dont know you but I LOVE YOU <3

By: Jon

Jon — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 23:38:40 +0000

Precious children of God, I am so very sorry for what has happened to you. This world has evil people in it. Turn to God through Jesus Christ and call on His name and He will help you. It’s not His fault and He loves you so very much. We are in a sinful world and people do horrific things. But God can help and get you throughit all. The devil intends to destroy you and what you can become. I will be praying for all of you and I hope you can turn to God for help and salvation.

You are loved by your creator who hates what his creations do to each other. You were made for this time and age to use the special gifts he gave you for His purpose. You are special and wonderful no matter what anyone says. You are beautiful, priceless, and a jewel. Don’t give up!

By: Linda

Linda — Thu, 08 Dec 2011 18:26:28 +0000

hello.
i m linda.
i am 14 yrs old… been thro everything u can think of…so please if you guys need anyone…please email me dont be afraid…
cold_hearted33@yahoo.com

By: Angela

Angela — Tue, 29 Nov 2011 06:07:17 +0000

I am an 18 year old girl, physically and emotionally abused. No one would know though, because I hid it so well. When I was young, I don’t remember any good memories only horrible ones. Memories of me being hit, slapped, or when I cried my mom would tell my dad to slap me on my mouth to shut me up. They never really cared. My family has always been kept away from me. My mom calls them ‘the devils’ and says that if we talk to them we are devils too. To this day I dont know half of my family from my mom’s side. My dads side has been off/on. I rememeber when I was small my mom getting out of the car, hitting my dad saying that if my dad dosn’t speak to them no more, shes leaving us. (My dads afraid of a divorce). Ive been slapped, smacked, had my hair pulled, beaten with a stick, punched, stepped on. No bruces though, they know what their doing. Just temporary pain.

But all that is nothing, the emotional pain is ALOT worse. Im called everything you can think of. My parents are foreign so, they speak in a different language. But the stuff they say hurts! I watch things on TV, like how moms are suppose to be. I wish I could be like that, and feel that. I want to feel loved and cared for. I pray that almost each and every night. I cry myself to sleep asking for just a little love, or for God to send an angel to hold my hand to confort me, just so I can sleep. I have no adults in my life who can help. My familly knows already and have seen the scenes happen over and over again.

Now that im older the physical abuse has lightened up, but the emotional is stronger then ever. Im still praying and still hoping for someone to love me.

To all those who have someone in your life who you can hold and love and cheerish, be grateful! Your the lucky ones. You have something to look forward to in the morning. I sleep with ear plugs, study non stop with earplugs, and dream of silence in my house.

–Angela

By: kayla

kayla — Tue, 29 Nov 2011 03:28:26 +0000

It was 9 years ago that my uncle molested me. at first i tried to tell myself to get over it, it was one time, the truth is, it took a huge part of my life. i would love to have it back and know who i would have been if it would have never happened, but i cant. i have wanted to disapear many times but cannot because it would hurt the peeople who love me but the pain is getting to be to much. i never asked for it, i did not make that choice but yet i am the one to have to suffer through all the pain, i ask God why, and he hasnt answered yet but i no someday he will. but i hope it isn’t to late.

By: Jada

Jada — Sat, 29 Oct 2011 08:27:49 +0000

aww these stories are so sad i hope you guys ghet help!!!its not aright for your parents abuse you…you dont deserve dhat!you can stand against them….FIGHT!:)TRUST ME YOULL BE HAPPY IN THE END

By: Lani

Lani — Fri, 28 Oct 2011 22:36:25 +0000

The thing is that people think it’s okay to physicaly discipline children to a point. But who’s the one that determines where the point lies? A reaction of violence is only caused by anger. you don’t need to hit or spank your children. ‘spanking’ is where it starts.

By: JoAnn Rodriguez Matos

JoAnn Rodriguez Matos — Sun, 23 Oct 2011 18:01:32 +0000

I am a survivor of child abuse, my siblings and I were tortured from a very young age until we were teenagers by our evil stepmothers. My father was very abusive also but most of all, he allowed his wives to abuse us. I have written a book as a survivor in an effort to give a voice to the 5 children in my story who were silenced with a threat of more physical torture of they told anyone what was happening to them. I have suffered from the vivid memories of the past all of my life and it has caused a lifetime of painful repercussions. I want to bring the person responsible for our abuse to justice. Please help me on my quest to bring our abuser to answer to her crimes. My book is titled “Hot Peas and Butter The Children in the Basement.” The crimes committed against my siblings and I are tragic but more tragic is that our abuser got away with it. Please visit Facebook.com and search Hot Peas and Butter The Children in the Basement and purchase your copy of this story that tells the name and location of our abuser. Thank you for your support.

JoAnn Rodriguez Matos

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By: addy

addy — Sat, 22 Oct 2011 06:48:28 +0000

i am just here for the needs of others. though i haven’t been exposed to physical abuse, i do believe everyone during their lifetime goes through a mental and emotional abuse from not only their families but peers; if you are going to physical mental or emotional abuse anywhere, you need to tell for YOUR safety. you shouldn’t worry about your mom getting into trouble, or your dad, or your alcoholic step dad…or WHOever. if its going on at school, stand for something and tell an adult. there is no need for abuse to go on during school. you have to be strong for yourself and do the right thing, tell someone. people will reach out to you. i know i may just be rambling on about stuff that people think noone knows what your going through, but a lot of us do. reach out for yourself, and others.

By: Sierra Snyder

Sierra Snyder — Mon, 17 Oct 2011 14:32:41 +0000

saraliffen@gmail.com !!!!